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Post by peytons mom-mom on Feb 16, 2010 15:07:03 GMT -5
my first pregnancy started out with twins. however, 1 was a blighted ovum. i went on to have a happy, healthy baby boy. he is now 4 and we started to try again. and when i say try...it is NOT easy! clomid is my only hope for conceiving! we got the good news in janurary...and of course, told everybody!!! super bowl sunday (yay saints!) i started spotting, not a lot, but enough to freak me out cause that did not happen to me before. (my body must have absorbed the sac last time.) red spots one day, brown spots the next. yesterday was the WORST though! no cramps or any pains at all, but red blood and was more than just spotting. again, it turned brown and that gave me a little hope. my appointment was the next day, so i would just have to wait it out...and pray for the best! well, this morning was my first appointment with ultrasound and...there was nothing inside the sac.......the doctor says that it could be that i am just 4 weeks pregnant, but I KNOW that's not the case. i would like to keep my hopes up, but i would rather prepare myself for the worst, than get my feelings hurt...i KNOW i lost this baby!
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Post by lfischer on Feb 16, 2010 16:06:51 GMT -5
I'm so sorry that you are going through this uncertain time.
Please know that you have found and awesome group of supportive women who are here for you every step of the way.
Hugs and prayers~ Leah
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Post by isavela on Feb 17, 2010 3:21:53 GMT -5
I'm sorry you are going through this. Hold on.
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Post by luvmyboys on Feb 17, 2010 12:31:21 GMT -5
I will be thinking of you. I just went thru this same thing. My situation did not have a happy outcome, I truely pray that yours does. Hopefully your dates are just off. I know I thought I was positive about my dates, and it just didn't match up with what the Dr. had decided. So hopefully that is the case and all will be fine.
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Post by peytons mom-mom on Feb 17, 2010 17:57:59 GMT -5
so, it's the day after my appointment...and i am NOT doing well! like i said before...i know that i am in the middle of miscarrying! the blood & cramping will not stop and i just passed something grey, i know this is all TMI (sorry) i just wanted to ask if anybody else has/is going through this???
my doctor's office called me today with the results of my hcg test (they are wanting to see if it's rising or dropping) and it is over 3,000. i KNOW when i go back again tomorrow, it will be lower...
hanging in there. knowing that i am one of the lucky ones to have even given birth 1 time before! but it doesn't quite make this any easier!
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Post by optimisticmom on Feb 17, 2010 19:06:18 GMT -5
I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I know eactly what you are going through.
I am not sure if I had the same exact experience, but I will tell you anyway. On 11/21/08, I found out I had a BO pregnancy (10 weeks). I had a D&C on 11/29/08. I continued to bleed and bleed, and finally my doctor put me on meds to stop the bleeding on 1/16/09. On about 1/24/09, in the middle of the night, I started to have horrible cramping and I passed this gray/brown thing. It was about 2 1/2 inches and looked like a little oval brain. I know TMI! I remember thinking, do I keep it? What do I do? Finally on 1/27/09, I stopped bleeding.
My BO was a horrible experience. When I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks the following June, I bleed naturally.
I will pray for you, and I hope you feel better soon! Dana
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Post by meeko08(Lisa) on Feb 18, 2010 0:47:56 GMT -5
I am so sorry you are going through this. We are here for you whenever you need support. (((hugs)))
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Post by daffylexer on Feb 18, 2010 16:51:56 GMT -5
{{{Hugs!}}} I'm so sorry you're going through this. Losing a baby is probably the hardest thing any of us have gone through so we totally understand the pain you have. We'll be here for you whenever you need a shoulder to lean on.
Big hugs, Alexa
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Post by bizzare on Feb 19, 2010 16:38:05 GMT -5
SO SORRY. LET US KNOW HOW YOU ARE DOING
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Post by peytons mom-mom on Feb 19, 2010 18:00:37 GMT -5
first of all...THANKS for all your support! it's amazing how others know and are going through things similar, and i'm NOT just the only one! well, sure enough i miscarried...by hcg level went from 3700 to 629 in 2 days. now, it's just sitting back and waiting for my body to heal and try, try again! i am doing much better now. it just took me a little bit to understand why this was all happening...not that i know now...but, at least i've had time to digest it. praying for a happy, healthy pregnancy and baby in 2010! THANK YOU AGAIN, TO EVERYBODY!!!!
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Post by rocklandk on Jun 6, 2010 17:28:30 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you are keeping your spirits up.
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Post by sheryl1976 on Jun 7, 2010 21:51:31 GMT -5
Im sorry for all of your losses...
Today I too found out that I had a B/O and my pregnancy was over. I am 34 so I feel I don't have alot of time to have a baby especially since I have irregular periods only about 4 or 5 a year. Iam so devistated. I found out I was pregnant May 14th and have been reading everything I could about pregnancy and what I should or shouldn't be doing or eating or drinking. Now I feel so sad and lost. My husband and I had just started trying just over a month ago and thought it was a miracle that we had conceived so fast. My conception date was one day before my birthday and due date was one day after his birthday. We just thought this baby was meant to be from the first day we found out. I started to spot on Wednesday and went to the doctor and u/s on Thursday. The u/s said I must only be 5 w as they only saw a sac. I knew immediatly something was wrong as I knew I had to be just over 7 w. My husband was in denial. I was so upset all weekend cause I just had a bad feeling and could not sleep. I continued spotting everyday and then today the bleeding got very heavy. I never experience any cramps, but had lost all pregnancy symptoms. The doctor told me the bad news today. I feel destroyed. Is there anyone that has had this experience and went on to carry a healthy baby. Irregular periods and 34 plus years. Sorry for rambling but I feel so alone and don't really want to talk to anyone. Most people don't know because we wanted to wait for 12 weeks because of miscarriage in first trimester.
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Post by carmenivy on Jun 7, 2010 22:22:30 GMT -5
Sheryl, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that lots of women on here have had a loss or even more than one loss and have gone on to have healthy babies. I can't use myself as an example, because I had my daughters very young and didn't have a BO until I was 28. But my husband and I, like you, had only been trying for one month when we got pregnant. It would have been my husband's first baby, and we found out about the BO a couple of days after our wedding.
It's such a devastating and surreal experience to have a miscarriage, and a BO is just such a weird thing. I had never even heard of such a thing before it happened to me. I'm sorry you've had to go through something this terrible. This is a wonderful, supportive community of women here, and I know they've helped me through both of my miscarriages. They have also been there for me when I was TTC and pregnant after my losses.
I hope we can be of some help and support to you.
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