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Post by lilysmommy2004 on Nov 9, 2005 13:38:44 GMT -5
I had a d&e last Friday. I didn't bleed that much all weekend, but today it has gotten a lot heavier and it's bright red blood. Before it was just red streaks in with discharge when I went to the bathroom. I've been wearing a pad, but there's never been much on it. Today, however there has been some on it - and like I said, it's more bright red. It's been six days since the d&e.
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Post by kurby68 on Nov 9, 2005 13:54:21 GMT -5
Have you done any heavy lifting? I know that can make bleeding heavier. If it continues I'd call your dr to check it out.
Take care
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Post by mamabear on Nov 9, 2005 14:18:29 GMT -5
I know I did not rest like I should (had out of town company) and a few days after my D&C, it was alot more bleeding, bright red. I had bleeding(heavy (like a period) to moderate to streaky(like break thru bleeding)) from 10-07 to 10-21. My post op Dr's appt. was 11-03. He told me it could be up to 8 weeks before I got a period. But started 11-04, like nothing had ever happened. I always struggle with my weight and have been sick this week, so shed a few pounds. 2 slices of pizza and 2 breadsticks later, Right back up the scale. It sounds like what is going on with you, is "normal" for what is going on right now. I know that doesn't sound right, so I hope you see what I mean. How are you doing otherwise? This site and these ladies are a great support. They know so many things and are not afraid to share it. Hugs, Mamabear
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Post by lilysmommy2004 on Nov 9, 2005 14:49:49 GMT -5
How am I otherwise? Not so good, lol. It's a daily struggle. The only thing I keep telling myself is that sometimes things are not for us to understand. I serve a God who knows all and is all and he has a plan. I just have to keep my eyes on Him and continue to love Him and serve Him and he'll guide me through. He's the only one who can give me the comfort and peace I need anyway. I honestly don't know how people face these things without Him.
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Post by mamabear on Nov 9, 2005 15:39:40 GMT -5
I hear you. This is a very difficult situation we find ourselves in. we know what we have lost, yet what answers do we have? I choose to believe that God has my 3 babies and that they are in Heaven with all our loved ones. Why HE took them? Maybe one day, when I am reunited with my babies, I will have my answers. The Grief process is completely individualized, in my opinion. I am very cynical by nature, but I couldn't tell you how many tears I have shed over these losses. All the ladies here are more than willing to talk to you, listen to you, cry with you, vent wiith you and if the time is right maybe rejoice with you. But this is a tight knight group. For all your pain and suffering, I am sorry and I am sorry that this diagnosis can sometimes be given as so callouss or with so little regard for the woman who had that little one under her heart, for so short a time. Many hugs and tears Mamabear
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