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Post by missjenngirl on Sept 4, 2005 9:13:13 GMT -5
I really don't know if I am going to explain this right because I'm just so devistated by this. first let me start by saying I work in a very old school building and we have about 20 woman of child bearing age. I just became the 11th in 2 years to have at least 1 m/c. we have only had one baby born there in 2 years... long story short some of the women are very bitter. a person that I considered a good friend of mine was very cool to me when I was pg. I knew this I tried to say away and not say anything but I would refer to her to my husband only as "baby eater" she called be to tell me how sorry she was for me. I told her that the bright side is that now we can try again and be pg together.. she then said to me" yeah I was so jealous of you being pg and me not being". I was polite but i had to get off the phone with her. I'm confuse, and hurt, and think I should be offended. i told my husband and he is upset too, but we could both be overly sensitive. jen
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Post by Heather (hlam) on Sept 4, 2005 9:58:50 GMT -5
Jen, A lot of us here have had to deal with people who aren't very sensitive to our feelings! I think that most people just don't realize how much our pregnancies mean to us or just don't know what to say! Has this girl been one of the women that experienced a loss in your building? If so maybe that would explain her jealousy. Not that she has a right to make you feel so rotten with her behavior towards you but maybe she just couldn't deal with her own feelings! Regardless of that, she made you feel bad when you were PG and she's made you feel bad since your loss! No matter what her reasons are she definately isn't being very sensitive to you. I'm sorry that she has hurt & offended you. Hang in there!
Take Care!
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Post by kurby68 on Sept 4, 2005 14:52:43 GMT -5
Jen
I am so sorry that you have had to deal w/ insensitivity. I do have a friend that was sort of like this when I was pg and later found out she was having some other problems in her relationship and w/ fertilty. We have since talked about things and cleared the air, but she was truly sorry for the way she behaved. I think that only you know what you can deal with. I hope that things work out the way you'd like them.
As far as being too sensitive... you are dealing w/ a lot and have a right to be sensitive.
Take care
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