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Post by Heather (hlam) on Aug 5, 2005 23:43:00 GMT -5
I have noticed that some Posts are directed to certain people. I have even responded to these posts. Is it alright for anyone to read and respond to posts that are specified for someone else. I just thought I should ask before I continue doing it! Thanks in advance for letting me know!
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Post by justinsmomma on Aug 6, 2005 6:33:49 GMT -5
Oh yes definitely! We are all here for each other. The reason I directed my post towards Andee was because 1. she asked me some specific questions and 2. I didn't want to take up a post where people were sharing their personal stories. Plus some people are "put off" by religious or spiritual talk and certainly I prefer to limit that as much as possible so as not to offend non believers.
Thanks for asking though! Post away!
HUGS
Kris
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Post by Heather (hlam) on Aug 6, 2005 9:27:33 GMT -5
Kris, Thanks for the quick and informative response. I really appreciate it.
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Post by kurby68 on Aug 6, 2005 10:46:44 GMT -5
Heather
That is what we are all here for. Just to help one another. Sometimes we put a post just for one person to get their attention. Everyone is welcome to post as we hope that we can help one another heal and move on.
Take care
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Post by Heather (hlam) on Aug 6, 2005 13:07:35 GMT -5
Kallie, Thanks for the response. I appreciate it. I figured it was okay to post and that it was just to get someones attention but I still felt that I should ask to be sure just incase I was mistaken. Thanks Again!
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Post by lani30 on Aug 11, 2005 22:25:02 GMT -5
Hi, I am new here and I can't seem to find how to post a new message (except for this quick reply). Can you help me? Need advice on my situation (diagnosed B/O at 10wks, going 12 wks now with nothing happening) Thanks.
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Post by Heather (hlam) on Aug 12, 2005 1:58:38 GMT -5
Lani, When you click on one of the boards and are on the area where you can pick topics you will see a place at the top and bottom that says "new thread".......you can click there to post! I also wanted to welcome you eventhough the circumstances are difficult. I was diagnosed with a BO at 13 weeks & 3 days.....I had no signs of any problems up to that point. I took medication to induce a mc. I know some ladies here have tried to wait for natural mc and others waited a couple of weeks and then had a D & C and others opted for D & C right away. It's a personal decision based on what your most comfortable with and the fact that you wouldn't be at risk for infection by waiting. Lots of ladies here have found some closure in getting thru the miscarriage. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and I'm sorry that your having to go through this but there are a lot of good ladies here with a lot of good information and their always ready to offer their support. (((((Hugs))))) Take Care!
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Post by kurby68 on Aug 12, 2005 6:41:05 GMT -5
Lani
Welcome and I am so sorry that you have had to find us. You have found a very supportive bunch of women that will help to answer anything and just allow you to vent or share ((((hugs))))
Heather is correct if you use New Thread this will allow you to start a new topic that others can and will reply to.
Take care
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Post by lani30 on Aug 15, 2005 7:22:05 GMT -5
Thank you for the replies, Heather and Kallie. Unfortunately, something happened already. I had a miscarriage yesterday. Had to go to the hospital for a D&C and just got out today. Physically, I am ok, the pain is completely gone. Emotionally, yes, there is a closure. But it is also a bit lonely because I have no one to talk to who understands the loss. But after reading this site, I feel better knowing I am in the company of other women who understand and are generous with their warmth and support. Thank you, guys.
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Post by Heather (hlam) on Aug 15, 2005 10:41:47 GMT -5
Lani, I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you feel better knowing you have our company. It is terrible circumstances that have brought us all together but I know for me.....it has helped a lot not feeling so alone. Hang in There!
Take Care!
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Post by kurby68 on Aug 15, 2005 11:50:57 GMT -5
Lani
I too am very sorry for your loss. And yes I understand that it is very hard because a lot of people do not understand what we have went through. If you need anything we are here for you.
(((((((((hugs)))))))))
Take care
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