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May 12, 2005 21:31:18 GMT -5
Post by nurse2be on May 12, 2005 21:31:18 GMT -5
Hello i just had my D/C today very out of it but just wanted evrybody to know I am ok and thanks for the support. My feelings are everywhere and I can't seem to think straight I am afraid to get pg again and then I want to but then I don't want to go the whole setting up for disappointment. I guess I will see how I am feeling in a couple of days. Good night all and thank you.
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May 12, 2005 21:58:47 GMT -5
Post by Blighted Ovum Board Admin on May 12, 2005 21:58:47 GMT -5
{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}} This is the worst time, IMO, the realization is hitting and coming to terms with what's happened is so hard. It gets better, I promise, and the picture and options will start to become clearer and you can decide how you want to proceed.
Take care of yourself and let us know how you are doing.
Lin
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May 13, 2005 4:58:01 GMT -5
Post by justinsmomma on May 13, 2005 4:58:01 GMT -5
(((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))) I know how you are feeling, you are in a very vulnerable place. I promise, in time the decision will become clear whether or not to try again. Just be gentle with yourself, cry when you want to and rest and relax. We are here anytime you need to talk. Hope your recovery from the surgery is quick and painless.
HUGS again
Kris
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May 13, 2005 7:04:05 GMT -5
Post by kurby68 on May 13, 2005 7:04:05 GMT -5
I remember well when reality struck and it really hurts. Go ahead and cry, get angry or whatever helps you get through. If you need anything we are here for you.
Give yourself sometime to heal and you will have a crearer picure of what you want.
Take care ((((hugs)))) Kallie
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May 13, 2005 10:08:08 GMT -5
Post by tamaramoser76 on May 13, 2005 10:08:08 GMT -5
nurse2be Time will heal all things girlie I to just had a D&C a week ago today after the loss of our 2nd child due to a BO MC and on top of that we have been TTC #2 for over 2 years so I know its hard to come to terms with but you will feel better soon and be ready to TRY TRY TRY again as we are I just ordered OPK's yesterday on line to get going I guess you O before you even get AF after a D&C so I want to see if I'm oing and if things are back on track Hang in there and rememeber its NOT in our hands its all up to the big guy and he knows best and it will all work out. None of us want a sick babys with problems so its better that are body picks thease things up and we MC or that the baby never developes thats what I keep telling myself Stay up beat never give up!!!
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May 13, 2005 12:02:17 GMT -5
Post by kurby68 on May 13, 2005 12:02:17 GMT -5
Tamara
Do you ever temp. That will also help you. I temped and used opk's. I didn't like them they gave me + for too many days and cost too much. I liked temping because I got to know my body. I also ckd cm & cp. I read the book Taking Charge of your Fertility. There was a lot of helpful material in there as well.
Take care
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May 14, 2005 12:04:06 GMT -5
Post by reedstephstuff on May 14, 2005 12:04:06 GMT -5
(((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))) I am so sorry. I guess there's really not much I can say. I'm still waiting for my natural M/C to occur and am beginning to think the D&C may be in my near future. I can definitely sympathize with the feelings you're having, but don't quite know how you may be feeling physically.... Haven't had a D&C before. Right now is the best opportunity to focus on yourself and getting back to some kind of normalcy and emotional stability. This roller-coaster ride of emotion is do draining! You deserve to just chill, sweety! Again, ((((((((((HUG))))))))))). Keep us updated on your recovery.
Stephanie
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