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Post by xxserendipty31 on Aug 2, 2012 16:24:48 GMT -5
wondering if anyone else has been through what im goin through at the moment im supposed to be 8+6 weeks pregnant and i had the smallest amount of blood tuesday while wiping myself i went straight to A&E coz ive miscarried before they sent me up for a scan and i can honestly say i really thought everything was ok i still have all my pregnancy symptoms however the scan showed a sac measuring 7+3 weeks and no baby or heartbeat they made me an appointment to go back next wednesday for another scan but the mw told me in no uncertain terms that theres no baby and no hope at first i was completely gutted but after doin some research i found that in some (although not many) woman returned for the next scan and a baby was found along with that, the fact i still feel extremely pregnant and i have had no further bleeding or pain im finding to hard to accept, i dont want to have false hope and be left feeling 100 times worse next week but i cant help it!!!!! anyone been through this if so what happened should i just accept the worst??
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Post by carlsangel on Aug 3, 2012 16:47:38 GMT -5
Is there any way you could be off on your dates? With my last pregnancy, I I had 2 u/s that showed an empty sac but those were at 5.5&6.5 weeks. Did they see a yok sac or anything at all inside the gestational sac?
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Post by xxserendipty31 on Aug 4, 2012 9:05:03 GMT -5
thanks for the reply hun no i dont think i can be off with my dates as its been 4 weeks today since i got my positive test meaning i have to be at least 7 weeks surely?? they didnt mention a yolk sac all the said was there was a sac but no baby i spoke to the mw today and she said my scan was inconclusive but coz of my dates (my my lmp i should be 9 +2 weeks now) shes not hopeful of better news on wednesday but they have to check just incase so i guess unless i start to mc before then im just gonna have to pray for a miracle xx
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Post by carlsangel on Aug 4, 2012 10:55:34 GMT -5
Well I will be praying! I have learned there is no such thing as false hope. There is always a chance for a miracle and it won't hurt any less if you let yourself have hope. I'm sorry you are going through this uncertainty. These boards are pretty slow lately and I don't come on much either so feel free to email me and I would be glad you give you support either way. Carlsangel18@hotmail.com
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Post by xxserendipty31 on Aug 8, 2012 11:16:38 GMT -5
had my scan today and the sac hadnt grown and they still couldnt see a baby i agreed to the d&c so im booked in for tomorrow im dreading it xx
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Post by tekkitten on Aug 11, 2012 2:55:53 GMT -5
How did the DandC go? I am on the fence right now. I have never had surgery, and although I hear the dandc is minor, its still scary to me. I hope yours went well?
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Post by meeko08(Lisa) on Aug 13, 2012 8:45:21 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss and sorry I didn't post earlier. I hope your d&c went OK and you are physically healing. We are here for you even if the board is a little slow now. (((HUGS)))
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Post by tekkitten on Aug 14, 2012 18:06:24 GMT -5
If you want someone to talk to hun please message me. It helps to talk with someone who understands. I just had a B/O and officially miscarried yesterday with the help of pills. Hang in there, and please write me if you need to vent, get feelings out etc. I was just through it so I understand what your going through <3
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Post by xxserendipty31 on Aug 19, 2012 6:25:08 GMT -5
hi everyone sorry for not replyin sooner ive been feeling very low and just generally feeling sorry for myself tbh the op wasnt to bad and i felt okish after it then about a week after i had some really strong pains thats wasnt pleasent but they seem to have passed now and the bleeding has more or less stopped as well but im still gettin positive pregnancy tests so thats gettin me down a bit just want to be back to normal now x
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Post by meeko08(Lisa) on Aug 20, 2012 9:50:16 GMT -5
What you are going through is hard. I wish there was a magical solution. Sometimes it takes a while for your body to settle down and your HCG to drop. As for emotionally it will get better just go with what you are feeling that moment and as time passes you will slowly start to feel sad less it makes it worse when your body is on a different page than you. I remember vividly how hard it was each time and how alone I felt. We are here for you. Take care of yourself (((HUGS)))
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Post by gbish7 on Aug 22, 2012 13:59:28 GMT -5
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am in the same situation right now. I am so incredibly sad and disappointed. Scheduled for my D&C tomorrow. Please keep my husband and me in your thoughts and prayers as well.
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